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When you are having doubts about your relationship... Here's what you should do...

If you have been with a particular guy or girl for a while, there may be times when you will have doubts. Often, we wonder why we have these doubts in the first place. What do they mean? Should you be worried? 

I am going to share a bit of my experience with you. I have been in a relationship with a particular lady for years. We are convinced about getting married but there are moments I have doubts. 
There are times I ask myself if she is really the one, if I am probably just wasting my time, if I will be happy with her in the long run. The questions are endless but do you know what they mean? They simply mean that we are both humans. 
I am human so it is natural that the uncertainty of the future freaks me into having doubts. She's human so it is natural that she will do things that annoy me and leave me wondering if she is really right for me. 

It is all part of the process but many of us don't realize it is normal because we have been led to believe that once you are in love, that's the end of the story. You assume that you two are perfect for each other and so there won't be moments of doubt. 
You must understand that having doubts does not necessarily mean that it is time to throw in the towel. It simply draws your attention to something. If you are having any doubt, take your time to evaluate why it is there and more often than not, it will resolve itself, that's why communication is key. 

On the other hand, you should be worried if those doubts are recurring, no matter how many times you have addressed them before. That might be an issue that is warning you that something is fundamentally wrong with your relationship. Other than this, doubts are nothing to worry about.
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