When it comes to relationship issues, JonesDozi tries to give you things  you  want and need to know.

You recently discovered that your guy has been cheating on you. So, what next? Well, so many ladies have different opinions on this matter, ranging from calling herself to order to maintaining her balance. True, it hurts a lot when you discover that your guy is cheating because deep emotions are involved. That is why it is very difficult for people to leave a relationship.

But by the same token, what mistakes must we avoid?

Never blame yourself

Whatever differences you both are having, it is not enough reason to justify his cheating. Never allow the differences influence your thinking. Cheating was his decision, never yours. Don’t ever blame yourself if you discover he is cheating on you.

Never apologize to him

Why would you apologize to someone who hurt you? What sensible thing will you say that will make him change for the better. Apologizing for his mistakes will make you more vulnerable because he will see you as someone who cannot survive without him.

Don’t try to heal all by yourself
This is another area where we need not overlook. You don’t have all the power this time to do everything alone; you need the help of someone you can lean on. This could be your very best girlfriend. Be open to her so that she will understand the situation better.

Don’t expect things to be fixed ASAP

Your process of recovering from the emotional pains is always lengthy. Try to understand this. While it is true that the time depends solely on an individual, don’t expect things to be fixed right away.

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