We are still on the issue of love and infatuation.

So many people today are obsessed with others the moment they see them for the first time. Telling the difference is very hard often because both of love and infatuation involve feelings.
How, then, do you know if it is infatuation or love? Let us get into business once and for all.

Infatuation is possessive
If a guy is infatuated with a lady, he does not think of being generous or helping the lady in the area of her needs. The guy is only concerned about what he wants to get from her. On the contrary, love is generous and considerate.

Infatuation happens on the surface
Yes, nobody argues that he doesn’t have feelings for you but the truth is that those feelings are not real; they just are on the surface because the person in question is not serious about you. But when it is love, you feel deeper attachment and affection.

Infatuation is short-lived
Yes, indeed. In fact, most ladies can attest to this fact. Immediately a guy gets what he wants from that gal, staying with her is very cumbersome for him.

Infatuation is controlled by desires
Infatuation grows with desires. Meaning, the more his desire grows, the more his feelings for you grow. This shows that after seeing you for the first time, he will be more obsessed when he sees you again. This time (if he didn’t say it the first time) he will tell you how he feels about you.

But love only grows with friendship. It grows with time because the person needs to know you more.

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